“Yo me corto y tú también”

Es aterrador como alguien puede aconsejar a un grupo de adolescentes a cortarse, dejar de comer, vomitar o hacerse daño.

Aunque para la mayoría de nosotros es familiar escuchar sobre casos de niñas metidas en la anorexia y la bulimia, no es tan frecuente la noticia de los niños y niñas que se cortan para sentir libertad, tratar de adelgazar o peor aún, para poder ingresar a grupos sociales.

Recientemente conocí el caso de un grupo de niñas entre los 13 y 14 años, quienes creaban grupos en WhatsApp en los que el tema principal eran las cortadas y defendían la posición de Pro-SI (Self Injury). La líder del grupo hacía un pequeño dibujo en su muñeca y enviaba la imagen por el chat, por supuesto, las demás integrantes debían realizar uno que superara el de su amiga y así sentir que ganaban poder y autoestima.

Este caso genera gran preocupación ya que se presenta en edades donde se está empezando a formar el carácter y la personalidad. Estos niños son propensos a las páginas y blogs de supuestos consejos que los impulsan a incursionar en estos mundos o a seguir y sentirse apoyados por más personas. Al ingresar a Google y buscar información sobre el tema se encuentra gran cantidad de páginas que evidencian como la población adolescente se ve inmersa en esta grave situación donde utilizan las redes para intercambiar información poco beneficiosa y buscar personas que permitan que sus grupos aumenten. Lo más complicado de esto es filtrar la información a los niños, ya que está al alcance de un clic.

Esto no es culpa de los niños, ni de los adolescentes, en realidad esto ha sido generado por ese furor mediático que nos hace creer que los prototipos deben seguirse al pie de la letra, que si no se tiene una figura de curvas y abdomen perfecto o de músculos marcados y espaldas grandes no se accede al mundo. Estas falsas imágenes llevan a la presión de grupos en los colegios, lo que desencadena la depresión y lleva a casos tan extremos como el querer hacerse daño a sí mismo para poder sentirse bien, o castigarse al no cumplir la meta del peso de la semana.

En las campañas Pro-Ana y Pro-Mia de anorexia y bulimia sostienen que hacerse daño debe ser parte del proceso porque así el cuerpo puede entender que debe hacer las cosas de manera diferente si se quiere alcanzar el objetivo.

No es entendible porqué puede pasar por la mente de alguien querer hacer tanto daño a otros, al escribir sobre cómo los niños o adolescentes pueden mentir en sus casas o sugerir recetas para poder vomitar y adelgazar en una semana. Es triste como estos niños no encuentran refugio en sus familias, en cambio sí en aquellas ‘herramientas’ que les causan las heridas en su propio cuerpo para poder sentirse plenos. Ellos no se dan cuenta del gran error que están cometiendo al creer que lo que hacen es bueno y mucho más que al divulgarlo van a ayudar a alguien.

Es necesario que se tomen medidas urgentes antes de que estas prácticas aumenten y luego sea demasiado tarde para detenerlas. Deben crearse legislaciones que prohíban la publicación de contenidos tan dañinos en las redes, ya que se tiene en cuenta que 3 de cada 4 usuarios de estas páginas son adolescentes menores de 18 años.

En el momento que se tome conciencia y se comprenda que las redes y los blogs están para comunicar experiencias agradables y comentarios positivos los niños y adolescentes van a seguir el ejemplo y no van a querer acudir más a este tipo de falsa ayudas.

 

*Imagen tomada de http://www.hola.com/ninos/2010062319205/adolescentes/consejos/facebook/ 

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